*Feel free to post anonymously* – I just really want to hear some opinions…
So I read this post on Jezebel a little while ago and wondered what people thought.
Personally I’ve always felt that you can’t possibly know a person after one date. You can’t know if you really like them, whether you’re romantically compatible, whether you even have that many shared interests. But you can tell if you fancy each other. You can tell if there’s a sexual chemistry. So I figure you might as well cash in on that and have some great sex while you can.
That said, I have also had some fairly lousy sex on first dates/one night stands. And my current boyfriend has told me he had no intention of sleeping with me on our first date and would have turned me down if I’d tried. As it was we waited until the third by which point I think we both definitely knew we liked each other for more than just a casual fuck. Plus the anticipation that had built up in that time was really exciting. So all in all I think I’m a convert.
What do you reckon?